haha I figured as much... I've known this girl for years, and she doesn't do those kinds of things without some sort "feelings" or "emotion". I know I haven't been with her for the past 2-3 years, but when I was hanging out with her, she still has the basic foundations of who she is. She felt compelled to ask me if I had been with any other girls and if I had sex with any of them.. (I hesitated because my business is my business, but she figured it out quickly) Than she told me she was still a virgin and blah blah. So I'm sure you can understand why I'm a bit perplexed of her behavior. Or it could be she's just become an awkard person haha. I don't know, she'll be moving back here to my hometown in a few months, and I'm debating weather or not to ask her out on an official date. She's still that cute bubbly girl I fell in love with. Then again, I've discovered other females, none that I've found as potential mates, but still. I'm too busy with work to deal with either sadly but I think it was a funny thing that popped up recently.
Update on my terrible love life... Haha. Me and my Ex talked about potentially getting back together. We've both admitted to still having feelings for each other. She profusely apologized for how our relationship ended, to which I told her the past was the past. We aren't official, and we aren't rushing anything, but we are seriously thinking about it. I told her in the mean time, we're still single and anything can happen. She understood. I'm still finishing up my training here in Stockton, and once I'm done, we'll meet up in December, and talk some more. Probably decide if we're gonna give it another go. We couldn't help it, while we were meeting up, we basically flirted for like 10+ hours while hanging out. I met her friends, and they basically saw right through this "we're just friends" facade... And we would end the nights making out.
Good luck davriver. This kind of relationships are never easy, I hope you both make a decision that will make you happy - that's what matters the most after all.
Dav you're gonna do what you're gonna do. My only advice is to make sure you know what you're doing and lead the relationship. Fool me once...
Pretty much how I'm viewing things... I told her I'm a changed dude. I think in the end, better for me, but who knows how it's going to be for her. Being a cop for the last year has done a lot to me... Lol.
so for the last 7 years, most of my dating experiences have been WMCs, but i'd like to share a story that only true Lakers fans will understand. I started seeing this girl less than 2 weeks ago, and we hit it off instantly. i've never been so into a girl so soon and it was a little scary at first. BUT THEN, she removed all fear and made me realize this could be the girl of my dreams. What did she do? Yesterday, she was asking me about what constitutes good seats at a basketball game. I thought she was just curious because we were going to the Islanders game and she knew i was planning on going to the Lakers vs Nets game next Friday. Then she tells me not to buy tickets because she just bought some! The best part? She got lower bowl seats, at center court. It's official LB, i've found my soulmate.
Sigh, even at a time I should know better, it is hard to live a love unrequited. Nobody's to blame but your heart sure takes more than its fair share.
Ran across a lovely woman of color and asked her out. Beautiful woman, very nice curves, super precious heart, and just an overall awesome spirit about her. She asked me if I was sure I wanted to go out with her, and I didn't really understand why she asked the question. (Not into insecure women either) Turns out she is 16 years my senior, and would have guessed 5 years tops. Hmmm, what to do with that? This I can say, I'm up at 1:30 AM thinking about her.
If you're thinking about her, you need to at least try to go out to figure out why she intrigues you so
