The Official Whine About Girls Thread

What are you trying to say?

 

Definitely sounds like she has you has intrigued. Best of luck, you can't let the questions stay inside your heart they gnaw at you. Sometimes thinking about a special someone can burn more calories than a full court match against Russell Westbrook.

 

so go on apps like Tinder or Match
if I want to find the ultimate catch?

 

I'm not rhyming in Open Court dammit! I actually met a few nice ladies on Tinder. Many people are using it a free dating app, and broadcast up front they aren't looking for hookups. I have a funny story about that (Typical sirronstuff fashion), but I'll save that for another day. The downside of Tinder? You have no idea if you are compatible on any other level besides looks. You don't get matched unless you both like the other person visually. At least with a well developed profile like on Match, you can look a little deeper and not end up going out with someone and wasting time/money that is completely incompatible on a huge number of levels.

But sometimes they are just cute.....and you don't really give a crap. I have one of those stories too....

 

I thought maybe I had a chance. But no dice. Time to extinguish the torch and move on. No use bothering someone just doesn't think of you as being at their level.

 

Starting to finally understand why someone might put "It's complicated" as their relationship status on Facebook.

 

She had balls?

 

She's the sister of one of my best friends ... and she's married ... in an unhappy/neglectful/abusive marriage that she rushed into and now feels obligated to maintain because of her citizenship status

 

That's not complicated. Run!!!

Rescuing does not equal relationship unfortunately.

 

Alright first whine and moan about girls post and in need of some advice....

I've been seeing this girl for about 9 months now, with a period of a 2 months inbetween where we broke it off, but eventually got back together. I'm posting today because in about a month I will be moving to start my residency, which is 3 hours away. We have talked about moving together for awhile now, so much so they she has been looking for jobs and such at the new place. This is a big no no in my family, on top of the fact that my mom and sister don't care for this girl to begin with. This same sentiment is felt by my friends (In that they don't think the move is right, nor do they care for her that much), and my doctor friends that don't think the move is right. I do love this girl, but the constant thought of my family and friends not caring for her is always in my head and makes me want to rethink this decision and tell her that moving in isn't right. It also makes me think about the future and how family gatherings, hanging out with friends, will always be awkward and putting unnecessary stress on me. By saying we shouldn't move we would more than likely break up. Do I listen to my family/friends? Any advice would be appreciated. I'm trying to defuse this situation in the most civil way possible, but I feel either way I'm hurting somebody.

 

Does she love you? If so, then your parents and friends will hopefully figure that out over time. I'm assuming they object to her because they care about you.

If she loves you, then I don't think that'll keep her from moving in with you. She's in a relationship with you. Not with them.

When Kobe married Vanessa, his parents objected. They're still together.

Just my 2 cents.

 

What is it about her they don't like?

 

I sent you a PM Punk.

 

For this many people in your life to feel this way, does seem to be a very relevant question. What are they seeing that you are able to ignore?