Hello gentlemen, and ladies if there are any. Thought I'd start this baby up like we did in CL. Other reason I decided to start this thread is I am seeking some thoughts or comments. So as you know, the ex and I had broken up about two years ago, or three, I forget. Anyways, I've completely ceased any contact with her as it was an emotional one for me considering it was my first heart break. Long story short, we broke up on good terms, no fighting, she wanted it more than I did but hey what are you gonna do. So i cease communication. Throughout the 2-3 years she just randomly texts me, just at the most random times. Sometimes she's in town and wants to get coffee but I just decline stating I'm busy, which I am. So after awhile of her random texts, I decide to be more responsive and just give her a slight update on my life. I applied for the Stockton Police Dept, I'm in the academy, blah blah. Give her the small update, she's proud of me, blah blah. So now I've noticed her random texts have increased. By random, I mean we haven't spoke for an extended period of time and she just texts me with a "hello" or my favorite one is when she had a nightmare about me and wanted to check in with me to see if I'm okay. So I was just wondering, any reason to these texts? I mean over time, I've been able to better myself, I don't know if any of you remember me from CL, but I was pretty down during that time. You all told me to just better myself, find something I like, workout, and it led me to being a police officer... I seriously have this community to thank, if it wasn't for those words, who knows what I would've been doing. But now that I'm healthier mentally and physically, I feel being a little curious about this wouldn't hurt. She just legitimately checking on me? She trying to meet up for a reason? I'm just not sure about her intentions, haven't seen her for about a year and a half and she wants to meet up during the turkey holidays. I'm just not sure. Thoughts? Comments?